Coach HarmonyLastnight On My Way Home From An Event I Met A Lady. It Was Like I Was Supposed To Meet Her There And It Was Fate.
We Only Spoke For 10 Minutes. And Yet It Was So Meaningful.
We Joked About The Condition Of The Ladies. I Asked Where Did You Go Then? She Replied In My Pants. Then She Revealed She Returned To The Hospital. Her Sister Had Been Sick And Had Almost Died From A Dental Proceedure. I Understood. And She Asked How? Am I Professional? “My Mum Was A Nurse I Replied”. This Moment Was Not About Me. It Was About This Lady, Her Sister, And Their Journey. Her Sister Was Older. They Had Each Other.
She Flashed Me Her Chest Not Once But Twice. I Looked Twice. She’d Had A Masectomy. I Flashed Her My Iliostomy Scar. And We Hugged And Laughed And Joked. Cancer Is Such A Scary Thing. Knowing You May Or May Not Make It.
I Looked Her In The Eyes And Asked How She Felt. She Replied I Died Twice. Literally Or Metaphorically I Don’t Know. I Didnt Ask. I Just Gave Her A Hug.
A Truly Wonderful Human Being, Looking After Her Sister While Recovering From Cancer. I Knew Because I Had Been In A Similar Situation. I Could See Her Colour Was Off. She Wasn’t Quite Out Of The Woods. But It Wasn’t My Place To Say, Or Give Advice. Sometimes It’s In God’s Hands.
I Had Admiration For Her Positive Loving Selfless Attitude. I Encouraged Her To Take A Taxi When Taking Her Sister Home. The Trains Were Delayed..
I Had Visited My Father On Bon Fire Night In London. The Trains Had Stopped. I Had Three Children. My Dad Was In Special Ward For A Suspected Virus. My Dad Was Dying. It Was The Last Time I Saw My Father On A Night Such As This. My Baby Got Bronchiolitis. Later On The Day After Dad’s Funeral She Was Hospitalised. Antibiotics Had Been Refused Over The 6 Weeks. And She Stopped Breathing.
But I Had Revived Her Whilst Speaking With Ambulance Or Services. I Swung Her By Her Ankle And She Is A Healthy Girl Today. Thank God My Mum Was A Nurse. And I Saved Her, The Hospital Saved Her. And Less Was Said About It. The Doctor Should Have Helped Earlier. I Was Like Sleep Walking In A Dream. That Part Of My Life. Antibiotics And Oxygen I Guess. My Little Baby With Oxygen Tube.
There Was Absolutely No Question And Not A Chance Of Failure. Not A Moment Of Doubt. And I Apologise If That Triggers Anyone. Sometimes We Can’t Save Everyone. Sometimes We Lose People Who Are Meant To Go Home. Or Pets. This Is Heartbreaking.
The Hardest Time Of My Life Was Losing My Dad. And Having Three Young Children And I Had Some Health Issues. But I Got Through It. My Family Were Kind & Supportive When It Really Mattered When They Could. We All Got Through The Tragedy Of My Father’s Early Passing Eventually. My Father Was Loved Very Much. He Was A Genius. An Extremely Wise Man.
I Encouraged This Lovely Lady To Get A Taxi, She Filled In The Blanks Immediately. Say Less.
As We Parted, “I Love You” I Said. I Think We Both Said A Minimum Of Three Times. It’s God’s Love. It’s Heavenly Divine Love.
There Was So Much Importance And Significance Of That Meeting. I’m So Glad I Met Her.
PERHAPS They Will Both Make It Taking A Taxi. Perhaps God Will Give More Money To Them. God Does Things Like This. People Don’t Notice. But I Do.
There’s No Such Thing As Coincidence.
I Had Left The Event Early Just To Go Give That Woman A Big Hug. To Cheer Her On. And That Was God’s Plan. A Similar Thing Happened The Evening Before. A Message For Me From Someone. And From God.
Fate Has A Funny Way Of Showing Up, So Make Sure You Do!
Sometimes It’s Just Our Destiny. If You Book A Seat, If You Have A Routine, If You’re Moved To Leave Early, Or Move And You Don’t Know Why. That Is God. Some Might Call Destiny.
If This Intuition Happens To You, Follow It. Learn To Trust Your Gut. Learn To Trust You.
If You Find Yourself Sleep Walking Awake, Consider It A Positive Sign, And Move Yourself.
When You Meet Someone Great, You Don’t Always Need To Exchange Details. God Makes The Plans. You Can’t Interfere Or Help People In Life Or Death Situations, Where Everything Has Already Been Planned Out. All You Can Do… Is Give Your Love. Love Is Understanding. It’s Unspoken. It’s Natural.
This Showed Me How Far I Had Come, How I Had Been There For My Mum, It Was Like I Was Looking Back On Myself. Visiting Dad, Visiting Mum, With Children Or Cancer Operations.
I’m Out Of That Situation Now. But Wow. I Really Understood. And She Understood Me Without Words.
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